It's not that bad but it is worse than it was so I get that.J. Kapp 11 wrote:
I don't like it when we get nasty with each other, either. There's no reason for it, even though I honestly don't think it's that bad here (though admittedly not maybe as civil as it was a few years ago).
The rest of this is a personal message to Jim.
I think you're a great poster man, rarely do I read your stuff and think "what a waste of time!" You're obviously smart and articulate and VERY reasonable when it comes to analysing the present. You must love posting as well, at almost 28k of them it's clearly something you enjoy doing and it's a part of you now so I wouldn't suggest stopping.
However, I think sometimes that gets you into trouble though! A lot of people here are comfortable running off of "emotion" and predicting the future or guessing the outcome of something that hasn't happened yet, even if their isn't a lot of evidence for it yet. Like for example year 1 and 2 people were already comfortable saying Ponder was a bust. Being as reasonable as you are, you always give the team the benefit of the doubt and take a "wait and see" or "too early to tell" approach. Which is fine, it's smart, you'll pretty much never be "wrong" because you wait for all the data necessary to come in before making a conclusion. Now ultimately I think we can all agree that Ponder isn't the answer so those people saying it in year 1-2 end up being right but the way you handle your approach makes it hard for those kind of people to have a discussion with you. The ones who post on emotion and probably aren't as articulate or reasonable as you are.
Because your arguments can't really lose (you'll never be wrong, you just might not be right) people don't see a way they can "win" so they do the next best thing and "attack" you by making some kind of snide comment or being passive aggressive in your direction. Sometimes people don't want to hear that voice of reason that you usually are, they just want to come on and post "Ponder sucks!" or "Frazier sucks!" I'm not saying you're the cause of the problem, but I do think this is why you're feeling like things have regressed so much compared to say myself or Kapp.
I guess my advice would be to try and figure out which posters actually want to have a discussion and which are just venting / running on emotion / not going to respond well to your approach and try to avoid them, it's just not worth dealing with them. Obviously some people seem to go out of their way NOT to be avoided so it can be tough. I think it'll get better though as the team improves and we have a good year!